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What should I do

Marian is a young girl in her early 20s, she has been in a relationship with Steve for a year now. Marian loves Steve very much and would do everything to make him happy, but of recent Steve has changed, he no longer cares about her and has been hitting her, he beats her at every opportunity he has got.
She says that he use to so loving and caring and does not understand what is going on, she wants to know what to do about the situation. 

What do I have to say about this 
I believe that every relationship out there has got his own problems, no body is perfect. All relationships always start up sweet and then we start facing challenges. It is how we deal with these challenges that make our relationship. In your case it is obvious you love your boyfriend and you are willing to make it work, then again you mentioned that your boyfriend is hiring you, which is something that should never be tolerated. Any guy that lays his hands on a lady is an animal and does not deserve her. I advice you leave him now when you still can cause there is no guarantee that he is not going to keep hiting you. Good luck. 

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