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Five signs that he is stalking you

According to vocabulary.Com, the term stalker describes a person who follows a particular individual obsessively. A stalker can be a male or a female, old or young, there is no exception. Stalkers are usually obsessed with their victim and can go to any length to be close to them. Initially, having someone follow you around all the time might seem ok, but stalkers can be dangerous and as sure should  not be ignored. How do you know you have a stalker, here are five ways to tell.

1: you see him/her everywhere you go.
When you keep seeing a particular person everywhere you go then there is a problem. Once or twice might be a coincidence, but the third time you find he/she around, it is definitely not an accident.

2: unwanted gifts
when you start receiving gifts continuously from an unknown source, then my dear you've got a  stalker.

3: threat messages
when you start receiving threat messages from someone you don't know, I think it's time you call the police.

4: believe both of you are in love
a stalker is usually obsessed with his victim, in his mind you both are a couple. When someone wount let you be and keep insistitng on a relationship with you, my dear you have got a stalker and you need to find help.

5: investigating you
some stalkers can go to extreme length just to be close to their victims, including checking them out on social medias, asking around about them. When something like this starts happening don't just ignore it get help.

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