Stop dating and get married

I was a born into a world where romance is the order of the day, on tv, in books, practically everywhere you find yourself relationship is being promoted in one way or the order. The question i have asked myself is "why do people go into a relation", "is there really any need for all that". first of all a dating period is suppose to be a period of getting to know each other prio to marriage, from what we see in our present society is this true.

If we would be honest with ourselves we would admit that in the world we live in today, when two people go into a relationship there are only two things involved, sex and money. Now one is truly interested about getting to know the other person better. My point is why should a girl put up her best performers just to please a guy, or a guy rehears his best line for a lady all for the name of relationship.

I think we should jut go back to the traditional and most decent way of things, just stay in your father's house and respect yourself, a man that would marry you will marry you, and not fooling around with somebody who is of no good. I think this system worked for our mothers, and it can also work for us. Mind you this advice is for those that are ready for marriage.

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