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Loving your body regardless of the size

Being a female is not an easy job, the society expects so much from us including having a body size which they consider perfect. When you are fat it becomes a problem, if you are slim it is also a problem, they create a perfect picture in their minds which they want us to fit into. What people don't understand is that no one has control of how their body size turn out. Some of us find it easy to add weight while others don't. I have seen someone who lives from one drug to another trying to add weight, all because the society especially this part of the world does not accept her body size. The worst of it all is they see you and ask you if you don't eat, not knowing the struggles you go through everyday.

I personally have had sad moments when people assume that am a teenager, I go to the market and hear stuff like "smalli". Initially, it use to annoy me but I have learnt to ignore it and be happy. Yes people would always judge you, you can't please everyone, they would always find something to talk about. Love yourself, love who you are regardless of your outward appearance, whether you are tall, short, fat or slim. Wear cloths that you love and are comfortable in, have a good personality, be proud of your size and show it off. Trust me there is someone out there for everyone.

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