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Should I move in with my boyfriend

Moving in with your boyfriend is not an easy thing to do especially in this part of the world. I personally don't believe in that, but who are my to judge. Here in Nigeria when a girl moves in with a man she is not married to she is being seen as bad and not a good wife material, most times the guy ends up not getting married to her, but then again it do sent always turn out this way, many have gone down this path and have success stories to tell.

If you have gotten to that stage of your relationship where you fell you need to move in with your partner, and you feel you are ready for it ask yourself this questions before committing

1: Are you ready to see this this face every mourning when you wake up each day?.

2: Are you ready for the fights?, cause trust me there is going to be lots of them.

3: Are you ready to show him that face without make up on it?.

4: Finally, are you ready to play house with a guy you are not yet married to?.

If you have asked yourself this questions and have successfully answered them, and you still feel that you want to move in with him, then go ahead.

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