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Why do ladies stay in abusive relationship

Many times we wounder why women stay in abusive relationship, why they allow their man abuse them. We look at them and judge, without understanding how difficult I can be to break up with an abusive partner. There are so many reasons why one sticks to an abusive partner. 

1: fear
This is the number one reason why women stay in abusive relationship. The fear of what might happen to them if the leave. I don't bleam them for this, as an abusive partner can be very dangerous. 

2: embarrassment 
Most people in abusive relationship are afraid of what people would say if they leave. Most people in this kind of relationship were probably warned from the beginning, because if this they are ashamed of what people would say. They feel embarrassed to come out. 

3: lack of confidence 
probably due to years of abuse, they conclude that there is nothing better out there for them and just decide to stay. Most times the abuser make them to believe that they can't do without him. 

There are so many other reasons that can make one stay in an abusive relationship, it all depends on the individual involved. Whatever may be you your reason, you should know that no one has the right to abuse you, and no one deserves to be abuse. Be I'm physically or verbally, you deserve better. Don't ever settle for less, there are so many guys out there and you can get any one you want. Look for help, talk to someone, leave now when you still can. Good luck. 

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