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Should I call him first

Every girl in this part of the world have probably asked this question at one point in time, "should i call him back. " You meet a guy for the first time, you both click, you exchange numbers, and as a naija babe you are expecting him to call you back but he doesn't. First you thought maybe he forgot, but then it's been a week now and you are asking yourself if you should call him first.

In Nigeria, when a girl finds herself in this kind of situation you hear stuff like, you are going to  appear cheap and desperate, he is not going to respect you, a guy is suppose to be the one calling, and so many other trash. The truth is that many things could have prevented him from calling you back, it could be that he forgot, it be that he misplaced your number, it could also be that he is not that into you. Whatever the case may be, one thing I know for sure is that a guy  would not take is time to approach a lady, collect her number and not be interested in something.

So girlfriend, be a big girl, pick up that phone and call him back. Who cares if you are the first to call, a guy who would stay would do so regardless of who calls back first.

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  1. istyking29 November 2016 at 00:59

    nice one. its funny how ladies think sometimes, u guys are just afraid to go for a guy u like.... just saying

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