Bleeding heart

There is no denying that we've all had a crush on someone    at one point in our life, we girls find ourselves doing crazy things when we have a crush. Here are a few things which every girl dies when she has a crush.  1: Stalk him on social media Accept it or not, but the truth remains that girls stalk their crush on social media. We monitor his every move, read meaning to all his post, and even go as far as checking all the pictures he has ever posted. 2: You take online quiz to know if he likes you Even though these quizes are just for fun we just can't help it, all you want to hear is that your crush likes you too. 3: You have your future all planned out in your head You go out shopping and then you guys bump into each other and then he stops to ask for your name and number, the only problem is that all these is all in your head. 4: You practice conversation You rehears things you are going to say to him when you finally meet him. You stand in front if t...

So you met someone who takes your breath away. You can't stop thinking about he/she, you seem perfect together, you tell yourself that you are in love. Well, that might be true, but before you conclude why not check out these signs to make sure you are lusting. 1: You look past their foolishness When you are in love you point out your partners mistakes. You are not afraid to let them know when they are wrong. If they love you also they would accept the criticism and try to be a better person. 2: You see them as god or goddess When you are lusting after someone that person seems perfect to you. When you love someone you see their imperfections and love them anyways. 3: Silence is awkward You are always thinking about what to say next to keep the conversation going, when you are not talking you think of making out. When you are in love you let the silence sit comfortable. 4: It's all about the sex Anytime you are together it's usually because sex is involved. You...

Some girls don't have a problem being a side chick, while some don't even know they are one. How do you know if you are his side chick? Check out these six signs below. 1: You've never been to his place If he's always giving you excuses as to why you cannot come to his place then there is a problem. He is either married or living with his girlfriend, otherwise he's got no reason to stop you from coming over. 2: You never spend the night together He will tell you he has to be up early for work, or he's got somewhere important to be, these are all lies. He's probably going home to his wife or to another side chick. No guy would stay and cuddle a girl that means nothing to him. 3: You never get to meet his friends You might be thinking he's got no friends, probably that's why you haven't met any yet, trust me he's got lots of them, you're just not worth meeting them. 4: He never answers his phone in front of you If he us always...

So you and your partner have been dating for a while now and you feel he is the one you have been searching for. He wants you to meet his family and you are worried if they would accept you. Normally the mother in-laws are the hardest to please, especially if the guy is an only son or the last child. See some ways that you can get into their good book. 1: Be respectful Any lady who wants to get married and fully accepted into the man family should be ready to show respect. We all know how much Nigerians love respect, especially the Yoruba's. You may not agree with them, but respect their opinions. 2: Offer to help These speaks a lot about your character, the kind of person you are. Even though its not your home, you can offer to help out in any way you feel you can. Trust me his mum would really appreciate this. 3: stay in touch Don't just meet his family and disappear. Call them sometimes to say hi, call them during birthdays or anniversary, these way you keep the rel...

So, you met a nice guy and you are both about to go on your first date. Exciting right? Totally. As exciting as it might first dates can be really scary and nerve-wracking, being yourself helps you feel relaxed and comfortable. Here are some first date advice every girl should know. 1: Dress comfortable I know you want to impress these new guy by looking your best. You are tempted to put on that dress that is a little too tight, or that shoe that you can barely walk with. Trust me now is not the time to do that, you want to be able to breathe freely, talk and move freely. 2: Don't drink too much I don't think say much on these one. If you are hoping to have a second date then you don't want to leave your first date drunk. 3: put your phone away It is rude to be on a date with someone and you are constantly touching your phone. There is nothing more annoying than trying to have a conversation with someone that is constantly touching her phone. Am sure your phone can...

Many times you hear women complain about their boyfriend not proposing. After all the cleaning and cooking, you putting up your best behaviour you are wondering why he still has not asked the question yet. Here are some of the reasons below. 1: he is not ready to give up his freedom He is not ready to spend the rest of his life with just one woman. Most men hate the thought of sleeping with one woman for the rest of their life. You can call them players but one thing is for sure, they still want to explore other women. 2: he feels already married to you You guys are probably living together and you are doing everything a wife would do to her husband, he sees no need to put a ring on it. 3: he doesn't have the money Planing a wedding and starting a family can be really expensive especially from these part of the world. Not all men are financially ok to handle that now, he might just be waiting to have the money for it. 4: You have a bad character Every man desires peace ...

There are several reasons why people cheat in relationship, men are not the only ones that cheat, women do cheat as well. There are several reasons why a woman would cheat. How do you know when she is cheating? Let's look at some common signs that shows she is cheating. 1: she loses interest These should be the most know fact. Women general take interest in even the smallest of detail of the one they love. They want to know what you are doing, where you are, why you did not call to check up on her etc. Why she starts cheating on you she generally care less about your activity. 2: she is always online Agreed that we all love to press our phone, and some people find it difficult to drop their phone, but when she cannot take some time off to attend to you then she is definitely cheating. If she keeps chatting and smiling even while on a date with you, am sorry to say but she's definitely cheating. 3: she starts to change her appearance You remember how she normally appear...

Having a guy best friend can be fun and very interesting. Like every relationship it has good days and bad days, but one thing that is certain is that your guy best friend will always have your back. 1: They are good listeners Even though they don't understand the reason for your rant, why you hate your body, or you crying over a guy who just dumped you, they still take out time to listen to you rant. 2: Your secretes are safe Every girl will agree with me that we females are not good at keeping secretes, especially the secretes of our fellow sisters. Even though as humans we all have the tendency to spread secretes and gossip like fire can spread in a forest, you've got agree with me that guys are way better at keeping secretes, especially that of their female best friends. 3: Everyone thinks you are dating or like each other This might be true for some people, but sometimes a guy and a girl just wants to be friends. When you are out together in public people would...

Jealousy as defined by the English dictionary, is a mental uneasiness from suspicion or fear of rivalry, unfaithfulness etc. Insecurity is one of the major causes of jealousy in a relationship. When one partner begin to question the feelings of the other, insecurity comes in, which will eventually lead to jealousy.            SIGNS OF JEALOUSY A jealous person feels that someone or something is threatening something they value. They usually show signs of 1: possessiveness: A jealousy partner is always possessive of the other. They start telling you what to do, when and how to do them, always wanting to know your every move. 2: Anger: A jealousy person tend to be angry at ever little thing. They can be dangerous to people around them. 4: Oversensitive: Every little thing is a problem to them. Nothing you do or say is ever good enough for them. You find yourself always trying to please them.                 ...

One on the things that kills a relationship is bad communication. Many time people fail to communicate how the truly fill about a thing, which leads to failed expectations, and eventually the end of the relationship. These are some of the ways that people can have better communication in their relationship. 1: speak out One thing I always advice people is to always say be open about their feelings. Except your partner is psychic he or she can't read your mind, so on less you let them know how you feel they may never know. 2: Listen Another great communication skill is listen. Yes it is good to always make your mind known, but before jumping in to pass judgment to you take out to hear what your partner has to say, if you want to interrupt you need to ask for permissiom. "Sorry, can I ask you a question?" Is a reasonable way to do it. 3: Ask questions These one is very simple, if you are not clear on something simple ask questions. Don't make assumptions, if yo...

Most times people wonder what two people who are dating each other do apart from having sex together. As much as sex is an important factor in a relationship, it is not enough to keep a relationship going. If you have been wondering what other things you can do together with your partner, these are just five of them. 1. Support each other Your partner should be your number source of strength and support, the one person you run to in good times and bad times. 2. Have fun together A relationship should not be too serious, you should be able to play together, party together, open up your self and just have fun. 3. Fight together A relationship without fights is usually filled with pretense and secrets. It is good to have healthy fights once in a while, it should that you are both communicating, which is important in a relationship. 4. Talk about your day It feels good to have someone to share our daily adventures with. Having someone just listen to you talk about how frustrati...

An abusive relationship can take any form, it can be physical or verbal abuse. Many at times we are being abused by our partners but we fail to see the signs, so nothing is done about it until it is too late. Here are signs of abuse to watch out for in your relationship. 1. Controlling An abusive partner is generally controlling, he tells you what to do, when to do, and how to do things. If your partner is always telling you what to do, it is a warning sign. 2. Jealousy These us another warning sign of abuse. When your partner is constantly jealous of your every move he becomes distrustful and constantly question your every move.  3. Isolation A relationship where you are being restricted fro mixing with the rest of the world is not a healthy one. 4. Verbal abuse  When your partner never has anything good to say to you, he is abusing you emotionally. A relationship is suppose to be about two people supporting each other, giving peace and happiness to e...

1.He never talks about himself A guy that is not not really into you would not see any reason to be open. When we truly love someone we want to give our all, we are excited about telling it all without any fear. So girlfriend if your guy isn't giving you any detail, he might just not be that into you. 2.He doesn't want to know more about you He is not interested in getting to know you. When a guy truly likes you, he wants to know all about you, he wants to hear all about your childhood, he wants to know about your challenges, he is interested in them all. Trust me, if he is not asking about you, he doesn't plan on staying that long. 3.He never calls There is always an explanation for him not calling, he is always too busy to call. A guy who truly loves would have at least 30 seconds of time to spear for the one he loves. No matter the excuse he gives for never calling, trust me if he truly loves you he would fine a way to reach you. 4.You never get to meet the i...

The journey of love is not like the movies would make us believe, s ome of us have been lucky to find our happy ending, some are still searching. For those that just had a bad break up, here are some steps to help you get over it, and maybe find your happy ending. 1: Delete their contacts The first thing to do after a break up, is to delete all their contacts from your phone or any where you have them. If you truly want to get over your ex, this step is very important, this would remove all temptations to them. Trust me sister calling them will only cause you pain. 2: Remove anything that reminds you of them These is quite similar to step 1, only that this has to do with personal belongings. It could be a picture you both shared together, valentine or birthday gift from them, whatever it is that spells their name you don't want to be seeing them, so get rid of them all. 3: Go out After a bad breakup, we ladies tend to spend the rest of our life shut away from the wor...

Being in a long distance relationship is not easy, it takes a lot of parience and dedication to make it work. Every relationship out there has got its problem, there is no exception. If you presently in a Lon distance relationship, you Can make it work, so long as both  parties are ready to make it work. COMMITMENT : In order, to make these type of relationship work out, both parties need to be commited to making it work. There must be an understanding between you guys, you must  know that it is not a one man thing. When you are commited  to something, you put your mind and soul to it. COMMUNICATION: Any relationship without communication, is bound to fail. Always create time to speak to one another, be very honest about your feelings and never lie to your partner. Communicate, But dont bug each other. TRUST: Trust is a very important assert, in a long distance relationship. In order to make these kind of relationship work, you must trust your partner to be faithful...