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signs of an abusive relationship

An abusive relationship can take any form, it can be physical or verbal abuse. Many at times we are being abused by our partners but we fail to see the signs, so nothing is done about it until it is too late. Here are signs of abuse to watch out for in your relationship.

1. Controlling
An abusive partner is generally controlling, he tells you what to do, when to do, and how to do things. If your partner is always telling you what to do, it is a warning sign.


2. Jealousy
These us another warning sign of abuse. When your partner is constantly jealous of your every move he becomes distrustful and constantly question your every move. 

3. Isolation
A relationship where you are being restricted fro mixing with the rest of the world is not a healthy one.

4. Verbal abuse 
When your partner never has anything good to say to you, he is abusing you emotionally. A relationship is suppose to be about two people supporting each other, giving peace and happiness to each other, and not the opposite.

5. History of physical abuse
OK, so everybody knows him as a woman beater, he has been in and out of relationships, he has even admitted to having temper issues, what are you still waiting for.

It might not be any of the signs I've listed here, it might be something else. The truth is that we all can tell when something is not right, if you ever fell like you are being abused, please come out of that relationship and be happy.

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