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how to make his family to like you

So you and your partner have been dating for a while now and you feel he is the one you have been searching for. He wants you to meet his family and you are worried if they would accept you. Normally the mother in-laws are the hardest to please, especially if the guy is an only son or the last child. See some ways that you can get into their good book.

1: Be respectful
Any lady who wants to get married and fully accepted into the man family should be ready to show respect. We all know how much Nigerians love respect, especially the Yoruba's. You may not agree with them, but respect their opinions.

2: Offer to help
These speaks a lot about your character, the kind of person you are. Even though its not your home, you can offer to help out in any way you feel you can. Trust me his mum would really appreciate this.

3: stay in touch
Don't just meet his family and disappear. Call them sometimes to say hi, call them during birthdays or anniversary, these way you keep the relationship going. They would like you if they know you have them in mind.

4: control yourself
Learn to control your emotions. Sometimes his family may be hostile towards you, they may deliberately say things just to offend you. Try to control yourself, don't start shouting at them or speaking back at them, just let them be for now.

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