First date tips every girl should know

So, you met a nice guy and you are both about to go on your first date. Exciting right? Totally. As exciting as it might first dates can be really scary and nerve-wracking, being yourself helps you feel relaxed and comfortable. Here are some first date advice every girl should know.

1: Dress comfortable
I know you want to impress these new guy by looking your best. You are tempted to put on that dress that is a little too tight, or that shoe that you can barely walk with. Trust me now is not the time to do that, you want to be able to breathe freely, talk and move freely.

2: Don't drink too much
I don't think say much on these one. If you are hoping to have a second date then you don't want to leave your first date drunk.

3: put your phone away
It is rude to be on a date with someone and you are constantly touching your phone. There is nothing more annoying than trying to have a conversation with someone that is constantly touching her phone. Am sure your phone can wait.

4: keep the conversation going
Don't let him be the only one talking it can be boring, don't give a yes or no answer it can kill a conversation. Ask him questions about his work, family, hobbies etc.

5: don't obsess about your appearance
Stop going to the bathroom every five minute to reapply your make up. Focus on having a solid conversation instead of worrying about how you look.

6: Have an exist strategy if things don't go well

Unfortunately, not all dates turn out well. If your date is being rude or making you feel uncomfortable, call him out on it without being mean. If you are just not feeling the date, it is OK to tell him how you feel. Remember you have no obligation to spend any more time than you feel.

7: Wait for him to call
Play it cool and wait for his call. If he's interested in you he would call or text you at the end of the night.

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