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4 things that only girls with guy best friend would understand

Having a guy best friend can be fun and very interesting. Like every relationship it has good days and bad days, but one thing that is certain is that your guy best friend will always have your back.

1: They are good listeners
Even though they don't understand the reason for your rant, why you hate your body, or you crying over a guy who just dumped you, they still take out time to listen to you rant.

2: Your secretes are safe
Every girl will agree with me that we females are not good at keeping secretes, especially the secretes of our fellow sisters. Even though as humans we all have the tendency to spread secretes and gossip like fire can spread in a forest, you've got agree with me that guys are way better at keeping secretes, especially that of their female best friends.

3: Everyone thinks you are dating or like each other

This might be true for some people, but sometimes a guy and a girl just wants to be friends. When you are out together in public people would just assume you are dating, or just too shy to admit your feelings. This can be frustrating, especially if you are looking to meet someone new.

4: you get jealous
Even though you don't want to date him you also don't want him dating anyone, at least not now. Selfish right?, I know but you just can't help it. You are use to it being just the two of you, once he starts dating someone else is coming into the picture, you start to feel jealous.

5: You have probably checked him out once

It is possible for a girl and a guy to be just friends, but that doesn't mean that our emotions don't get involved. Even though we females might never admit this, but at some point you have thought about the possibilities of you guys dating.

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