signs that you are in lust not love

So you met someone who takes your breath away. You can't stop thinking about he/she, you seem perfect together, you tell yourself that you are in love. Well, that might be true, but before you conclude why not check out these signs to make sure you are lusting.

1: You look past their foolishness
When you are in love you point out your partners mistakes. You are not afraid to let them know when they are wrong. If they love you also they would accept the criticism and try to be a better person.

2: You see them as god or goddess
When you are lusting after someone that person seems perfect to you. When you love someone you see their imperfections and love them anyways.

3: Silence is awkward
You are always thinking about what to say next to keep the conversation going, when you are not talking you think of making out. When you are in love you let the silence sit comfortable.

4: It's all about the sex
Anytime you are together it's usually because sex is involved. You're not really interested in spending quality time together, all you both want to do is have sex.

5: There is no connection
There's no late night talks, no cuddling, you don't share your feelings together. Again all you both want to do is have sex.

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