how to get over a bad breakup

The journey of love is not like the movies would make us believe, s

ome of us have been lucky to find our happy ending, some are still searching. For those that just had a bad break up, here are some steps to help you get over it, and maybe find your happy ending.

1: Delete their contacts
The first thing to do after a break up, is to delete all their contacts from your phone or any where you have them. If you truly want to get over your ex, this step is very important, this would remove all temptations to them. Trust me sister calling them will only cause you pain.

2: Remove anything that reminds you of them
These is quite similar to step 1, only that this has to do with personal belongings. It could be a picture you both shared together, valentine or birthday gift from them, whatever it is that spells their name you don't want to be seeing them, so get rid of them all.

3: Go out
After a bad breakup, we ladies tend to spend the rest of our life shut away from the world, and crying ourselves to sleep every night. Apart from the fact that this is unhealthy, it stops the entire healing process. You need to go out there, meet people, have fun and be happy.

4: Find something doing
The best way to keep your mind from thinking about your ex, is to keep it occupied with other thoughts. Try out new things, find a passion, be with friends and family, with time you will how happy life can be without your ex.

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