Bleeding heart

So you met someone who takes your breath away. You can't stop thinking about he/she, you seem perfect together, you tell yourself that you are in love. Well, that might be true, but before you conclude why not check out these signs to make sure you are lusting. 1: You look past their foolishness When you are in love you point out your partners mistakes. You are not afraid to let them know when they are wrong. If they love you also they would accept the criticism and try to be a better person. 2: You see them as god or goddess When you are lusting after someone that person seems perfect to you. When you love someone you see their imperfections and love them anyways. 3: Silence is awkward You are always thinking about what to say next to keep the conversation going, when you are not talking you think of making out. When you are in love you let the silence sit comfortable. 4: It's all about the sex Anytime you are together it's usually because sex is involved. You

Some girls don't have a problem being a side chick, while some don't even know they are one. How do you know if you are his side chick? Check out these six signs below. 1: You've never been to his place If he's always giving you excuses as to why you cannot come to his place then there is a problem. He is either married or living with his girlfriend, otherwise he's got no reason to stop you from coming over. 2: You never spend the night together He will tell you he has to be up early for work, or he's got somewhere important to be, these are all lies. He's probably going home to his wife or to another side chick. No guy would stay and cuddle a girl that means nothing to him. 3: You never get to meet his friends You might be thinking he's got no friends, probably that's why you haven't met any yet, trust me he's got lots of them, you're just not worth meeting them. 4: He never answers his phone in front of you If he us always

So you and your partner have been dating for a while now and you feel he is the one you have been searching for. He wants you to meet his family and you are worried if they would accept you. Normally the mother in-laws are the hardest to please, especially if the guy is an only son or the last child. See some ways that you can get into their good book. 1: Be respectful Any lady who wants to get married and fully accepted into the man family should be ready to show respect. We all know how much Nigerians love respect, especially the Yoruba's. You may not agree with them, but respect their opinions. 2: Offer to help These speaks a lot about your character, the kind of person you are. Even though its not your home, you can offer to help out in any way you feel you can. Trust me his mum would really appreciate this. 3: stay in touch Don't just meet his family and disappear. Call them sometimes to say hi, call them during birthdays or anniversary, these way you keep the rel

So, you met a nice guy and you are both about to go on your first date. Exciting right? Totally. As exciting as it might first dates can be really scary and nerve-wracking, being yourself helps you feel relaxed and comfortable. Here are some first date advice every girl should know. 1: Dress comfortable I know you want to impress these new guy by looking your best. You are tempted to put on that dress that is a little too tight, or that shoe that you can barely walk with. Trust me now is not the time to do that, you want to be able to breathe freely, talk and move freely. 2: Don't drink too much I don't think say much on these one. If you are hoping to have a second date then you don't want to leave your first date drunk. 3: put your phone away It is rude to be on a date with someone and you are constantly touching your phone. There is nothing more annoying than trying to have a conversation with someone that is constantly touching her phone. Am sure your phone can

Many times you hear women complain about their boyfriend not proposing. After all the cleaning and cooking, you putting up your best behaviour you are wondering why he still has not asked the question yet. Here are some of the reasons below. 1: he is not ready to give up his freedom He is not ready to spend the rest of his life with just one woman. Most men hate the thought of sleeping with one woman for the rest of their life. You can call them players but one thing is for sure, they still want to explore other women. 2: he feels already married to you You guys are probably living together and you are doing everything a wife would do to her husband, he sees no need to put a ring on it. 3: he doesn't have the money Planing a wedding and starting a family can be really expensive especially from these part of the world. Not all men are financially ok to handle that now, he might just be waiting to have the money for it. 4: You have a bad character Every man desires peace

There are several reasons why people cheat in relationship, men are not the only ones that cheat, women do cheat as well. There are several reasons why a woman would cheat. How do you know when she is cheating? Let's look at some common signs that shows she is cheating. 1: she loses interest These should be the most know fact. Women general take interest in even the smallest of detail of the one they love. They want to know what you are doing, where you are, why you did not call to check up on her etc. Why she starts cheating on you she generally care less about your activity. 2: she is always online Agreed that we all love to press our phone, and some people find it difficult to drop their phone, but when she cannot take some time off to attend to you then she is definitely cheating. If she keeps chatting and smiling even while on a date with you, am sorry to say but she's definitely cheating. 3: she starts to change her appearance You remember how she normally appear

Having a guy best friend can be fun and very interesting. Like every relationship it has good days and bad days, but one thing that is certain is that your guy best friend will always have your back. 1: They are good listeners Even though they don't understand the reason for your rant, why you hate your body, or you crying over a guy who just dumped you, they still take out time to listen to you rant. 2: Your secretes are safe Every girl will agree with me that we females are not good at keeping secretes, especially the secretes of our fellow sisters. Even though as humans we all have the tendency to spread secretes and gossip like fire can spread in a forest, you've got agree with me that guys are way better at keeping secretes, especially that of their female best friends. 3: Everyone thinks you are dating or like each other This might be true for some people, but sometimes a guy and a girl just wants to be friends. When you are out together in public people would

Jealousy as defined by the English dictionary, is a mental uneasiness from suspicion or fear of rivalry, unfaithfulness etc. Insecurity is one of the major causes of jealousy in a relationship. When one partner begin to question the feelings of the other, insecurity comes in, which will eventually lead to jealousy.            SIGNS OF JEALOUSY A jealous person feels that someone or something is threatening something they value. They usually show signs of 1: possessiveness: A jealousy partner is always possessive of the other. They start telling you what to do, when and how to do them, always wanting to know your every move. 2: Anger: A jealousy person tend to be angry at ever little thing. They can be dangerous to people around them. 4: Oversensitive: Every little thing is a problem to them. Nothing you do or say is ever good enough for them. You find yourself always trying to please them.                           HANDLING YOUR JEALOUSY 1: Stop comparing yourself to others

One on the things that kills a relationship is bad communication. Many time people fail to communicate how the truly fill about a thing, which leads to failed expectations, and eventually the end of the relationship. These are some of the ways that people can have better communication in their relationship. 1: speak out One thing I always advice people is to always say be open about their feelings. Except your partner is psychic he or she can't read your mind, so on less you let them know how you feel they may never know. 2: Listen Another great communication skill is listen. Yes it is good to always make your mind known, but before jumping in to pass judgment to you take out to hear what your partner has to say, if you want to interrupt you need to ask for permissiom. "Sorry, can I ask you a question?" Is a reasonable way to do it. 3: Ask questions These one is very simple, if you are not clear on something simple ask questions. Don't make assumptions, if yo