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How to get out of the friendzone

Firstly let me start by telling you what the friend one is. You know that feeling when you desperately want to be the lover, but instead you end up being the friend? well let's just say a friend zone is that place no guy wants to be, but many guys find themselves trapped there. Now let me tell you how you can go go from being the friend to being the lover.

1: Make yourself scarce
These is the first and most important rule, you have to be unavailable. Desire is drawn from curiosity, stop being there all the time, stop being looking for her let her find you. Stop being all over her get a life.

2: Stop caring so much
These is usually where most guys get it all wrong. Stop having all the solutions to her problem, stop being the guy who has all the answers, it only makes you look like her dad.

3: Create some competition
The simple truth is that you have been friend zone because you have made her feel safe and comfortable. She isn't seeing you as a man because she hasn't seen you with other girls. Go out there and date other people, give her something to worry about.

4: Just out with it
The truth is 90% of girls who friend zone a guy are already aware of how the guy feels about them. There are two things involved, its either you secretly likes you back but just waiting for you to make the first move, or she doesn't have romantic feelings for you. You letting her know how you feel will either take you to being the lover, or leave you friendless. You might want to think these through before going on.

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